YAY! You’ve just received an invitation to your dear friend’s wedding. You immediately start to think about what you are going to wear, and how to follow dress codes. While many invitations include a suggested dress code, it’s not always easy to decode what kind of wedding attire the couple has in mind. And with the rise of creative attire requests like “whimsical woodlands,” “chic garden party,” or “beach formal,” it’s no wonder so many guests feel unsure about what to wear. While couples often provide more guidance on their wedding website, choosing the right outfit can still feel like a challenge.
That’s where we come in.
This guide breaks down the most common wedding guest dress codes—plus tips for dressing by season, location, and culture!
White-Tie Attire
The most formal of all dress codes. Think of it as royal ball energy.
- Women: Full-length ball gown, formal heels, elegant jewelry, and possibly gloves.
- Men: Black tailcoat, white shirt with wing collar, white vest, white bow tie, formal black shoes.
Black-Tie Attire
Formal, but slightly less rigid than white-tie.
- Women: Floor-length gowns or sophisticated cocktail dresses.
- Men: Black tuxedo, black bow tie, white shirt, black patent leather shoes.
Black-Tie Optional
Guests can choose a formal tux or opt for slightly more relaxed attire.
- Women: Long dress, formal cocktail dress, or dressy pantsuit.
- Men: Tuxedo or dark suit and tie.
Formal Attire
Very similar to black-tie optional, but a bit more relaxed.
- Women: Cocktail dress, long dress, or chic separates.
- Men: Suit and tie in darker hues; tux not required.
Cocktail Attire
Polished and party-ready, without being overly formal.
- Women: Stylish knee-length dresses, jumpsuits, or dressy separates.
- Men: Suit and dress shirt; tie is optional but encouraged.
Semi-Formal Attire
Dressy, but with some wiggle room—consider the time of day.
- Women: Midi dress, skirt and blouse, or dressy jumpsuit.
- Men: Dress shirt with slacks and blazer; tie optional.
Casual Attire
Low-key and laid-back—but jeans, shorts, and sneakers are usually still a no-go.
- Women: Maxi dress, nice pants and top, or a casual sundress.
- Men: Khakis or chinos with a collared shirt or polo.
Creative Dress Codes: What Do They Mean?
With more couples planning personalized weddings, dress codes have become more imaginative. Here’s how to decode them:
- Whimsical Woodlands: Earth tones, flowy fabrics, nature-inspired prints, and romantic accessories.
- Chic Garden Party: Florals, pastels, midi dresses, linen suits, and straw hats.
- Beach Formal: Light fabrics, maxi dresses, tailored linens. Ditch the stilettos for wedges or dressy sandals.
Dress Code Tips by Season
Spring/Summer
- Light fabrics (cotton, linen, chiffon)
- Soft or bright colors, floral prints
- Outdoor-appropriate shoes
Fall/Winter
- Heavier fabrics (velvet, satin, wool blends)
- Rich jewel tones or dark neutrals
- Closed-toe shoes and layers
Dress Code Tips by Culture
Different cultures have specific traditions and expectations when it comes to wedding guest attire. If you’re attending a wedding rooted in a culture different from your own:
- Do your research on appropriate colors or styles.
- If unsure, reach out to the couple—they’ll appreciate your effort to be respectful.
When in Doubt, Ask
If you’re even the slightest bit unsure about what to wear, don’t hesitate to reach out to the couple (or their planner). It’s always better to be safe than sorry—and they’ll likely be happy you asked.
Choosing what to wear to a wedding doesn’t have to be stressful. With a little guidance, you’ll be able to interpret any dress code, from ultra-traditional to uniquely modern. Whether you’re headed to a black-tie affair or a barefoot beach ceremony, the goal is to show up looking polished, respectful, and ready to celebrate.
So RSVP “yes,” pick your outfit with confidence—and get ready to raise a glass to love.
Before You Go!
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